[ST] Email issues...

[donna at donnamdube.com]

Here's the situation.

My ISP is Charter. It the only one available up here. When we lived in
Watertown we had RCN.  My domain (donnamdube.com) is hosted by pair.com.

I cannot seem to get emails to ANY of the arisia.org addresses from my
home going through Charter.  If I log in directly to pair.com's web
interface, thus bypassing Charter, to send the email, it goes through.

It's a pain in the ass to have to do it this way, since I don't use the
web interface to read email normally and responding means opening another
window, cutting and pasting the addresses and message I'm responding to
etc.  anyway, you get the idea.

I'm guessing that somewhere along the line arisia.org is refusing stuff
from Charter and it is lost, I don't even see a refused bounce message.

I had no problems when we had RCN (and I used pair). But up here the only
service we can get is from Charter.

I need to figure out where my emails are disappearing to, if it's charter
at my end or arisia's end that they are getting lost.  If it's at this end
I need to call charter.

Anyone got a clue to help me out here?  I'm not even getting bounces to
tell me where things are disappearing.

Thanks...

-donna.

ps. this email is sent from the web interface at pair.com